领悟

So many days past by since the last post. So many things to blog about.

Everytime I had those thoughts in my mind. It's either I am just so lazy, too tired or don't have the necessary "equipment" for me to post those thoughts at that moment.

And when I want to blog after that, I totally lost the feeling already.

I can only remember the following lines I had been thinking about since day 1 of this year:

商场如战场。不会有真心朋友。

不会有人对你真心诚意，只会对你虚情假意。

所以选择沉默。因为“病从口入，祸从口出。”

不要让别人抓到你的把柄。

因为人多口杂，“一传十，十传百。” “好事不出门，坏事传千里。”

搞不好不用一天时间，整栋大厦的人就会知道你的事。因为自动会有人替你做免费宣传，打响你的名声。

即使你病了，别人也只会叫你去看医生。不会有人可怜你。所以无需想尽办法搏同情。

当上司觉得你做错了，你就是错了。不必任何理由。


这就是现实生活。所以人才会变得越来越无情。

And yes, just now mention to YL that I m still not used to be a follower at work. I prefer leading more actually. Like in the committee for CCAs when I was in sec and poly...or even as a trainer...I think it's more fun and challenging to plan stuff rather than just be a blind follower when you cant have any say on your own. =(... and obviously there's nothing you can say "NO" to...

Of course being committee also not always full of laughter and fun. There are times you get fed up and irritated. But still I prefer to lead than follow at work...hee... looking forward to the lifestyle I dreamt I always wanted.

I've never given up on my beloved dream...