wedding...should be the decision of the couple...side people even parents should only be giving advise into what to do, and not how to do...how to do it should be decided by the couple...why cant pple see open and let them decide themselves??
in your mouth, you said to the couple "aiya, anything la you go decide yourself la"
but in your action, you don't realise you are intercepting every step they made...
understand that you are happy for the couple and want to share the joy with your friends, but did you consider for the couple? they don't even know them! how funny is it to have to ask them to the dinner...for me i will, only treat them to the buffet loh...